Yes or No Wheel for Love
When you're unsure about a relationship decision, this wheel can help you pause and notice how you feel about each option.
Why Love Decisions Feel Hard
Relationship choices often carry emotional weight. Whether you're deciding to reach out, take a step forward, or step back, these moments can feel significant. When your heart and mind seem to disagree, it can create uncertainty.
This yes or no wheel doesn't know your situation or predict outcomes. It simply offers a neutral pause. When you see the result, pay attention to your reaction. That feeling—relief, disappointment, or something else—can reveal what you actually want.
When to Use This Wheel
This tool can help when you're stuck on relationship questions like:
- Should I text them first?
- Should I ask them out?
- Should I bring up a difficult conversation?
- Should I take a break or continue?
- Should I trust my feelings or my logic?
Use it when both options feel valid and you've already considered the basics. The wheel isn't a replacement for communication or self-reflection—it's a tool to help you notice what you're really feeling.
Important: This wheel provides a random result. It doesn't know your relationship history, the other person's feelings, or your specific circumstances. Use it as a moment of reflection, not as relationship advice.
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